Summertime and the livin’ is…
We’ve reached what is for many the half-way point of ’summer vacation’. In households with children, the novelty of lazy days without the demands of school schedules may be wearing off and the ‘crazies’ settling in. For those with strained budgets, this summer may not be filled with glorious vacations or memories of roller coasters, water parks or trips to the beach. “I’m bored,” or “There’s nothing to do,” may be resounding through the halls of your home. What can you do to make summer memorable and NOT strain your budget? Try these on for size (with or without children):
- Free Activities. Google your location and ‘free activities’. You may be surprised at the wealth of opportunities for outdoor concerts, free movies (most national chains offer G and PG-rated movies throughout the summer–you really don’t need a child to attend), library activities, park events or free days at local museums. I did this last week in anticipation of a two-week visit from grandsons and filled a calendar with worthwhile, free or very low cost activities.
- Hobbies. Spend some extra time pursuing hobbies that you enjoy. Or start a new hobby, especially ones that require little cash outlay. One summer, my then 11-year-old daughter was confined to home with health issues. She began entering contests on behalf of herself, her parents and family friends. She learned how to be organized, gained communication skills and reaped more than $11,000 in goods, services and cash. Look for local organizations centered around your hobby or something you want to learn. Those that are passionate about something will often willingly share their knowledge with you.
- Stay-cation. All the rage these days to save money and be more ‘green’. Ask your local and state tourist bureaus for information about attractions in your own backyard. Set aside a week and vacation from home. Keep meals simple (or prepare them ahead), minimize housework and PLAY! Go to local monuments, meet interesting people, visit interesting architecture or make a tour of the local parks.
- Libraries. Use your local library to its fullest extent. Check for local programs (I found several really great ones–science expositions, live reptiles, visiting authors), children’s activities, check out DVD’s, books, magazines, etc. Use the library to get information about your local area, books about different areas of the world, cookbooks you have been wanting to try, hobby information and, often, very inexpensive resale books. At our local library, donated children’s books sell for 25 cents, adult paperback for 50 cents and hardbacks for $1.
- Visit Another Country (no passport required). Set aside a week to ‘explore’ another country. Go to the library and check out books, cookbooks, videos, etc. about a part of the world you want to visit. Encourage children to make up costumes, dances, musical numbers, art work, etc. common to that area of the world. Write to that country’s embassy (ahead of time) and ask for information about their country. If there is an embassy or consulate in your area, ask about visiting. See if there is a local group of citizens or descendents of immigrants from your country of choice. Visit them or invite someone over. Finish up the week with a great ‘fair’ featuring all you have learned and gathered. Try recipes from your country of choice, wear your costumes and have the children put on an art show.
- Set A Theme. Do your children love animals? Legos? Water play? Set aside a week to focus on a theme and practice being silly. Animals? Visit the local animal shelter and pet the animals. Visit a zoo. Or a vet’s office (with prior approval). Or a local farmer/rancher. Have a digital camera? Set up a ‘photo shoot’ of the stuffed animals as though they were wild animals. Legos? Set aside a lego week. See if there is a local Lego building enthusiasts group. Set aside a large area in the house for a massive Lego build that can stay up all week. Lady & Gentleman Camp. Spend a week learning the finer points of manners & social graces. The finale could be a meal at a nice restaurant or an at home ‘fine dining’ experience. Invite friends over for everyone to practice with. Princesses? Pirates? Sea Animals? Horses? Need ideas? Look online for party themes and coordinated ideas. There are many free downloadables, forums and other sources for great ideas.
- Practice The Silly. Let your inner-child out. Play with bubbles. Lay a sheet out on the floor, set an electric popcorn popper in the middle, remove the lid & let the popcorn fly! Have an Easter egg hunt in the middle of the summer. Make batches of homemade play-doh and have fun together. Set up a tent outside or in the basement. Play pirates. Have a treasure hunt. Set the timer and see how fast you can clean the house. Eat from paper plates. Have a backwards day–dinner for breakfast and pancakes for dinner while you wear clothes backwards or inside out. Let the children be parents for a few hours or a day. Develop a family language or secret code. Catch fireflies. Dress up in costumes and act out a play.
- Learn New Skills. Utilize summer days to learn a new recipe, teach your children or yourself to cook, sew, clean, mend, first aid, cake decorating, outdoor skills, canning, car maintenance, baking, home repairs, orienteering, bird watching, couponing, how to tell a joke…the list goes on and on. Utilize Boy Scout merit badge books to learn new skills. Invite an experienced Boy Scout over to teach you new skills–it will be good for all of you. USE THE LIBRARY!
- Prepare For School. Shop at thrift stores, yard sales, dollar stores, sales, etc. to start gathering the supplies and clothes you will need for the beginning of school. Set everything aside and label it as needed. Clean the house thoroughly. Don’t forget to schedule required physicals or eye exams NOW to avoid the school opening rush. Preparing slowly over a course of weeks will make it more enjoyable, less stressful and likely save you money.
- Practice Readiness Skills. A quiet summer evening is a perfect time to have a surprise ‘evacuation drill.’ See how fast it takes you to grab your 72-hour kit, your shoes, etc and get out of the house. Pile everyone in the car and go out for an ice cream cone. Make it a game to check the smoke detectors, locate the water shut off valve, find the gas shut off & required wrench.
- Surprise Santa. Start getting ready for Christmas & holiday gift giving during the summer months. Have your children begin making gifts for teachers, friends and family members. Utilize summer photos to make albums, notecards, etc. Use inexpensive rubber stamps or make your own with vegetables & produce custom wrapping paper. Label & store everything carefully and you’ll be ahead of the holiday crazies. Make up your holiday budget now and talk to family members about holiday plans.
- Redecorate. Now would be a great time to redecorate a child’s room. Give them a strong voice in the decision making and work together to choose colors, low-cost accessories, ‘upcycle’ thrift store or at home finds and remember to enjoy the experience.
- Visit Others. Visit friends or make new friends by visiting an assisted living or nursing care facility. Call ahead to make arrangements. If your family has specific talents, see if you can share them with the residents.
- Spa Day. Schedule a day to do manicures, pedicures, long soaks, etc. at home. Relax. Read a good book. Watch an uplifting or touching video. Listen to soothing music and consciously unwind.
- Service. Serve those around you. Cook dinner for a homeless shelter. Collect items for a women’s shelter. Visit shut ins. Tie a quilt for newborn babies. Write letters to military members. Cook dinner for a new mother. Look for opportunities to serve one-on-one.
- Old-Fashioned Fun. Our forefathers (& mothers) did not rely on commercial entertainment to enjoy the seasons. Look to yesteryear for fun & memorable summer activities such as picnics, visiting parks, games, musical evenings, at-home plays & puppet shows, nature walks, reading, fishing, etc. Learning new games and activities can not only be fun, but educational.
- Prepare Halloween Costumes. While you are out shopping yard sales and thrift stores, or honing your sewing skills, think ahead to Halloween. Have your children plan out a costume and look for the components while visiting yard sales, etc. Or use freecycle to find just what you are looking for.
- Clear The Clutter. Set aside a few hours a week to clear the clutter from your home. Safety check toys & equipment. Donate excess stuff to a worthwhile charity. Host an exchange day–friends & family bring the ’stuff’ they don’t want and exchange for your stuff that they might be able to use.
- Laugh & Enjoy The Time! Whatever you choose to do, use this time to bond with those you love. Enjoy being together and build memories of laughter, family and friends!
And don’t forget the sunscreen & sunglasses when you go outside.
